Whom did I really wed?

Customized cars are the days of past
customized people are trending the lot
our zeal to alter everything we posses
turned rancor the very-thing we posses

not a thing you own, nor a prize that's won
not a race to run, nor a trade begun
not a compromise that's done, nor an institution to shun
not a burden that's borne, nor the destiny's web spun

determined in depths, deeper than our heart
in the very core of the cosmic mart
our choices reflect the situations that play
they are only but the unfolding times' play

the person with whom I took the vows
an astonishing mirror image, which shows
is it me? or the world that bows
to a companion-ship that divinity rows